How to change your worldview. How to change your worldview: a simple algorithm

10.10.2016

Today I would like to discuss with you the topic of personal, spiritual growth, change within yourself and how to change your worldview. There is one very important point that many people miss. Change is impossible without practical experience. You can read books, listen to trainings, re-read the newsletter many times, but there will be no growth until you gain certain life experience.

In recent years, I have undergone major changes in values ​​and thinking. These changes would not have been possible if I had not gained some practical experience. There was a time when I was chasing money, expensive cars and other trappings of passion. Raised my stress and income levels higher and higher.

I gained this experience and became much calmer about passion when I tried to live a little differently. When I started practicing simple living in everything. Simple food, simple cars, simple thoughts. After such practices, I saw a completely different side of life.

It is impossible to change your life and yourself only in your mind. Practical experience required.

It's hard to see the true beauty of country life if you spend all your time in the city. It is impossible to see the beauty of ordinary things if you are among people who only talk about passion. It's hard to be at peace if you're stressed all the time. To change your diet and attitude towards food, you need to fast for some time. And so on…

Where does growth occur?

In financial matters

When you have a lot of money, when you have little money. When it’s easy for you to get money and when it’s difficult. When there is a choice between money and conscience. When you are up to your ears in loans due to the insatiability of your mind, when you are financially free due to a cool head and sound calculation. Experience with different amounts of money, the degree of difficulty in obtaining it, and in decisions about how to manage it. It is important to see this growth, translate the experience gained into quality, mistakes into wisdom, and learn to see something more in this life than just money.

On travel

If you read the statements of famous people about travel, you will see that each of them spoke about the importance of travel for personal development.

Three things make a person happy: love, interesting work and the opportunity to travel. © Ivan Bunin

A good traveler does not have precise plans or intentions to get somewhere. © Lao Tzu

Don't tell me how educated you are - just tell me how much you've traveled. © Muhammad

The highest goal of travel is not to see a foreign country, but to see your own country as a foreign country. © Gilbert Chesterton

Important. If travel for you means a trip to Turkey for 10 days, where you spend most of your time in the pool and in the dining room, then there will be no growth from such travel. On such trips there will be excellent rest for the body, but there will be minimal or no growth.

The greatest growth in travel comes when you enter a different environment. When you can plunge into the life of another people. When you find yourself in holy places, in places with extraordinary nature, when you try to communicate in a foreign language, when you build your own routes, when you find yourself in a “different world,” when life while traveling is as different as possible from the one you are used to at home.

When changing your place of residence

Traveling is one thing, but moving to live is quite another. There are many places on the planet where it is good to relax, but impossible to live. How many insights life in Europe gave me, how many discoveries life in Russia brought me far from my native St. Petersburg. This changes your worldview a lot.

At the birth of children

When a child appears in a family, he changes not only everyday life, habits, and rhythm of life. The child changes his parents in terms of their attitude to life and true values. The more children, the greater the “phase shift”. To experience the beauty of what it means to be parents, you need many children, from two or more...

How many families are afraid to have children for fear that it will limit their freedom, that it will be more difficult financially, and so on... Don’t be afraid, a child will bring special value to life and change you once and for all. Try to see the value in this if you have not paid attention to this point before.

The fastest way

Not everyone can experience big money. Not everyone has the opportunity to travel regularly; some have already gained parental experience, but for others it’s not time yet. Training is one of the most accessible and fastest ways to grow.

In just a few weeks of training, powerful changes take place, which in normal life can take years or even decades. Isn't this amazing! Particularly powerful are full immersion trainings, when the training participant is taken out of everyday life, physically moved to another place and every second surrounded by a special atmosphere and like-minded people.

Unfortunately, not everyone has the time and financial opportunity to undergo training in reality, so in my online trainings I try to create conditions that are as close as possible to training in reality and it works!

What you eat?

The dependence of nutrition on worldview is guaranteed to exist. Most often, there is a tendency towards healthier eating among those people who are engaged in their spiritual and personal growth and vice versa. It's hard to imagine a monk with beer and chips.

Experiment with your diet. Fast, try different systems. Avoid heavy foods and meat at least temporarily. You will see that this will affect your state of mind and worldview.

Let's sum it up

Travel, gain conscious life experience, taste this life, immerse yourself in family life, go to trainings, take care of your nutrition and then you will constantly grow above yourself, which means realizing one of your most important goals in life - the development of the soul and the acquisition of human experience . Of course, there are many more points that could be addressed, but the format of the article forces me to shorten the dialogue a little and focus on the above points.

Be attentive to your life, don't fall asleep! Every moment of your life has meaning, you just have to look closely!

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- Let there be light! - said God.
But it was still dark.
- Let there be vision! - God added. (With)

1. It is not the system that creates, it is Man who creates.

In order for the life of every person to improve qualitatively, the energy of life must be returned to the Person, the carrier of which he is. A person cannot fight the system; in this fight he only loses his strength. But you can get out of it and not play by its rules. You say: “well, yes, but taxes, food, paying bills, family needs - where will all this go?” After all, it is precisely these needs that a person satisfies in the system, devoting most of his life time to earning money, connections...

Let's let go of worries and doubts for a while, and recognize the simple thing that our own thinking creates the reality in which we explore ourselves. Our thinking is not free from rules, norms and guidelines, that is, all the content that we have been loaded with since childhood.

The system, having taken away all the freedoms, cannot return them to the person, but the person himself can take away his freedom, as the right to his life. A mature person understands that fighting for freedom and peace is pointless! Old methods cannot lead to new solutions.

Fighting the system is useless, there is only one way - to stop playing by the rules proposed/imposed by the system itself. If you ask yourself the questions “how to live correctly?”, “What should I do for this?”, you will have a whole series of ready-made answers that have entered the subconscious since childhood.

Each person will have his own set of ideas, which the surrounding specific environment endows each member of his team with. All these answers are part of the psychological program when you think about how to follow these laws and rules in order to survive, to be accepted and appreciated.

We can trace how a network of co-dependent connections is woven between people, depriving them of personal freedom - waiting for someone else's reaction, opinion, approval or criticism deprives people of peace and confidence. But free thinking reflects precisely your perception; only those who are internally free can perceive freely. It should be remembered that thinking itself is only a tool of our consciousness, and the worldview palette builds the angle of view. The wider the palette, the more comprehensive the worldview, reflecting not only knowledge about the world and oneself in this world, but, most importantly, a personal attitude towards everything where the focus of attention is directed.

Our mood or attitude towards something creates an emotional coloring - negative, positive, neutral, or cognitive... Pessimists, positivists and realists can change their position, depending on the transition from one topic to another.

In the process of thinking, when we think or speak, a change in attitude occurs due to our feelings, first of all, and secondly, our knowledge. Knowledge itself does not make us more human or less, but our feelings make us either hostages or free people, if our thinking expresses a personal position, and not someone else’s.

Duality- this is the lack of choice of the reality in which your consciousness is located, and when there is no choice, there is no position, no freedom of thought, no real freedom of being.

The most common form of anxiety in modern people is: “how I look, how I am perceived, how other people evaluate me”, - just think about this absurdity!

This experience takes a lot of mental strength, since a person thinks that his life depends on it. But your life does not depend on other people's opinions, it depends on what you are ready to do with your life yourself.

The first step to personal freedom- this is to get out of dependence on public opinion, which exerts the strongest pressure. You will understand that it is impossible to pressure or intimidate you if you have decoded this social code in your subconscious. A mind clogged with other people's thoughts is unable to discern its own... Not all other people's thoughts are bad or harmful, many of them can be puzzling and develop your ability to think for yourself. But when your own system for comprehending information appears, and your personality is quite harmonious, it is directly connected with a living perception of the world, do not forget to clean out the outdated content.

The experience and all the heritage of the past are hopelessly outdated. It turns out that now everyone who is aware of the disturbed balance between external conditions and self-awareness in the inner world must make an effort within themselves, changing the settings of their program. It is enough to change your worldview to change your destiny. There is Pure Knowledge of how things work and it is spiritual in nature, but do not confuse this knowledge with religiosity.

A person himself, and only himself, is able to find this freedom in his inner world, step by step getting rid of the experience of victimhood, which is filled with prohibitions, restrictions, problems, illnesses, suffering and humiliation of the individual. To change your personality settings, you need to practice self-observation and acknowledge the facts of your addiction, and after re-evaluating them, you can do something about them: rewrite your beliefs, understand your experiences and get out of the grip of oppressive emotions.

Belief- this is the most stable thought-form, it carries within itself the powerful energy of faith and it is useless to argue with it. For example, a person believes that he will not succeed... this belief makes life not successful, but the experiences are dramatic. Replacing a new thought can create a new belief: I regain confidence in myself and something can work out for me. Such a reminder at the right time will work as self-support, and you will find that you are not as helpless as you thought before.

As you regain trust in yourself, you will have to be more creative, asking yourself to think more practical thoughts that puzzle you: how and where can I find a better job for myself, instead of complaining about the lack of one... What should I pay attention to and change if I don’t? I like the partners I choose, but instead of stating, no one likes me.

Raising your fortitude occurs with these elements of self-support, while simultaneously blocking dissatisfaction with yourself, the habit of criticizing, whining and complaining about your fate. You will have to change your thinking to influence the results you want, and then changes will begin to happen. By changing his own reactions, a person ceases to be a puppet responding to any provocation from the outside world; these signals no longer traumatize or cling, consciousness, decoded from the 3D psi program, is released, moving to a new level.

2. Who's ready? - Units. Why?

For the most part, people behave as if they do not remember, are asleep, frozen, they are stricken with ignorance, they lack discrimination, and the entire focus of attention is directed, as before, only to comply with systemic norms, which is perceived by many as a necessary condition become happy (...) Does everyone now need to change to such an extent as to strive for personal freedom and live outside the system? Obviously not. This has its own wisdom, since everyone moves at their own speed, enjoying the life that they know, this is how the personality and soul mature.

There are people who have not yet finished playing, have not received all the experience due to them within the system, they keep themselves within the usual, sometimes comfortable framework, not wanting to change anything. This book simply will not fall into the hands of such people, and those who read it should not agitate anyone by doing more good than someone can accept. Even if these are your loved ones, and you wish them beautiful changes. Accept the fact that they are simply not ripe for a new raising of their consciousness in order to complete many years of running in one circle, take stock and discover their new deep content, with an exclusive modeling of their life.

This creativity of life is not for everyone: it is still understandable only to those who are already ready, who are mature. When a person awakens, he begins to realize that the social script no longer fits him, he realizes that he has grown. The conscious person has outgrown the childish script written by the system - one for all, with variations of 500 templates. While the mass consciousness habitually replays stigmas in their heads like: “for bad behavior, the terrible God will come and punish you..., and reward you for good behavior,” the system has them on all sides. The very word God can be hidden, and the vivid fear of punishment simply comes from the system, from the very environment in which each of you lives, feeling this fear.

Who do you feel like when you feel this way?

Does the sacrificial program resonate within you sufficiently for you to establish contact with it? To want to do something for yourself, showing self-care, taking spiritual responsibility for yourself? The infantile consciousness behaves in the system like in a kindergarten, confident that everyone owes it, and everyone is to blame if its life is bad. It’s as if the conversation between the children and the teacher continues: the search for justice, to get protection for themselves, and to punish the offenders.

The transfer of a religious attitude to life, first of all, affects the sense of responsibility, and if a person perceives himself as small and God as big, then the roles are logically distributed: I am small, I am the performer, you are big, you are responsible for everything.
Logical, right?

This approach also affects relationships between people who have an infantile consciousness: God is an intercessor, God is a punisher, God is a rewarding and punishing force. This is the reason for conflicts, wars under the guise of God, murders are easily committed and blood is shed. And the more shouts “with God on our lips”, the more primitive the understanding of the meaning of life, of their lives, people turn into zombies - convenient players for the system.

The more such people seek justice, the more evil they encounter, and they create it themselves - remaining dissatisfied, they turn into aggression, considering it right. It is precisely this primitive attitude that is introduced into the mass consciousness so that people do not penetrate into the essence of the divine nature itself, the bearers of which they themselves are. The light of the soul is blocked by fears, mistrust, uncertainty, self-deprecation... Mass consciousness is a dead end on all sides - and there are only two of them, and we feel ourselves trapped in duality, which broadcasts a flat picture-image: black - white, good - bad, right - wrong, moral - immoral, and such authorship is also attributed to God. God is not in the plane, does not live in dual thinking, is not present in three-dimensionality..., he is cramped there, he is Multidimensional.

But this is already a matter of voluntary choice, to remain forever small or to move into multidimensionality, after God: those who have grown up and are no longer satisfied with the flat image of God in their consciousness, as we already understand, re-evaluate outdated values, that is, more primitive ideas are not satisfied a matured person and this process is noticeable, as it happens inside you.

Gradually, the three-dimensional consciousness 3D (collective), in the process of searching for new answers, begins to mature and awaken to new revelations - and we will call this evolution. We call such a consciousness Awakened, that is, one that begins to realize itself not only as part of the human race, part of nature, but also as part of the divine power. It is for her that the Seeker goes on a search, Feeling himself in the flow of life - he sets out on the Path to know God within himself.

(a fragment of the book, I share parts in the process of writing)

This article contains 7 rules for those who want to become happy and achieve something in this life. Are you one of them? Make yourself comfortable.

No. 1. Mirror Rule

The people around you are your mirrors. They reflect features of your own personality, often unconscious to you. For example, if someone is rude to you, it means that you want it that way, you allow it. If someone deceives you again and again, then you have a tendency to believe anyone. So there is no one to be offended by.

No. 2. Rule of Selection

You realize that everything that happens in your life is the result of your own choice. And if today you communicate with a boring person, does it mean that you are the same boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unhappy ones. If you solve their problems, it means you like it. So there is no point in making claims against anyone. You are the reason for everything that happens to you. The author and creator of your destiny is you.

No. 3. Rule of Error

You have to accept that you may be wrong. Other people should not always consider your opinion or your actions to be correct. The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. You are not ideal, you are just a good person, and you have the right to make mistakes. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and correct it in time.

No. 4. Matching Rule

You have exactly what you have, and exactly what you deserve, no more, no less. It concerns everything: relationships with people, work, money. If you cannot love a person to the fullest, it is ridiculous to demand that this person love you the same way. So all your claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when you decide to change, the people around you change (for the better).

No. 5. Dependency Rule

Nobody owes you anything. You can selflessly help everyone you can. And it makes you happy. To become kind, you need to become strong. To become strong, you must believe that you can do anything. Although, sometimes you need to be able to say “no”.

No. 6. Rule of Presence

You live here and now. There is no past, because every next second the present comes. There is no future because it doesn't exist yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression, preoccupation with the future creates anxiety. As long as you live in the present, you are real. There is reason to rejoice.

Instructions

First of all, determine your current . To do this, answer a few questions for yourself:
- How did our world come into being?
- was it created by God or is it a natural process of the “big bang”?

After answering these questions, try to find reasonable evidence for your answer. Perhaps they will not seem so convincing to you, and your initially formed worldview will begin to change from now on. After all, studying the structure of the world and your opinion about it are the starting point in your worldview and attitude. So summarize yours and clearly define your point of view in this aspect of the worldview.

Determine your attitude towards the world and the events taking place in it. The attitude can be pessimistic, realistic or... If this option is pessimistic or too realistic, try to argue what is happening in favor of a realistic or moderately optimistic option.

Now, having answered all the questions, your worldview will be easy for you. Analyze current events, explain them to yourself from your own point of view in order to adequately represent the structure of the modern world. These can be sciences or religions, the main thing is that they satisfy your new worldview.

Find the right conditions of motivation in order to increase your self-esteem, and set higher, but definitely achievable goals in life. This can be achieved through various life-affirming psychological trainings or friendly relations. Having determined your place and goals in life, your worldview will improve, which will inevitably lead to an increase in your standard of living in general.

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• how to change current events

The attitude of the people around you reflects many circumstances, sometimes beyond your control. Often this is public spam, requiring immediate removal from the destiny program. To put it simply, you are surrounded by gossip, but you cannot fight it.

Instructions

Count your shortcomings again. Now all of them must be specially registered with you if you want to change the installed sight others on your merits.

Forgive yourself for some of your character traits, justifying: “It’s not my fault that I’m like this and like that!” This will be the first step towards recognizing the bad traits of your character.

Tell your neighbors about yourself. Present them with positive facts about your life. Always a banal reason (by the way, completely unexpected for) that gives rise to nasty gossip is incomplete information available to the public. It can also carry the same type of facts, or be one-sided. Add the necessary facts that are beneficial to you.

Make sure that your behavior pattern matches the desired attitude towards you. Maybe you really respect the person, but accidentally allowed yourself a harsh remark? How will he guess that there is respect behind it? Voice the phrase: I am you. Keep your distance from ostentatious goodwill, hypocritical boasting, and pretentious politeness.

Carefully observe and analyze the speech addressed to you and the response phrases to yours. If a person listens to you, interrupting you, inattentively and impatiently, without pleasure, then this signals his negative attitude towards you, at best, indifferent.

Learn to perceive and understand yourself. An effective exercise in this direction can be watching a video recording of personal participation in the footage or listening to an audio recording with your own voice. The conclusions are simple: what you like has a similar effect on strangers.

The new patterns of behavior you have developed should be carefully monitored for six months.

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• I had my eyelashes done by one specialist for a long time, then I decided to change

It is almost impossible to find people who would retain their beliefs, views, tastes, and habits unchanged throughout their lives. It is human nature to change over time. It’s not for nothing that they say: “Whoever in his youth is not at least a little revolutionary has no heart, and whoever in his old age is not at least a little conservative has no mind.” But what are the limits of such changes?

Why does a person change at all?

Can we expect that a person will completely change, for example, his character, behavior, attitude towards this or that object? Each person comes into this world with only a set of unconditioned reflexes and genetic inclinations received from his parents. But as he grows up, he begins to develop as a person. In addition to his genetic predisposition, he is greatly influenced by the upbringing he receives at home, among his closest people, at school, and in the garden. It is in early childhood that a person’s character is formed, which determines his subsequent behavior.

This is precisely what the old saying is based on: “You need to teach a child while he lies across the bench, but when he lies lengthwise, it will be too late!”

Subsequently, the child begins to communicate closely with his peers in kindergarten and school. During his studies, he learns a lot of new things, gradually gains some experience, and develops some interests and hobbies. All this also affects his behavior, views, tastes. Then, during adolescence, his character and behavior may change dramatically, but this is temporary until the hormonal levels stabilize. And so on. As a person gets older, he gains more and more experience, changes his attitude towards people, his value system, etc. Accordingly, he himself changes, including under the influence of other people, especially those whom he loves and appreciates.

How long can you change a person?

However, in most cases such changes are not too profound. After all, what was laid down in childhood is very difficult to correct. A person can be influenced to some extent for the better or for the worse, but completely changing him is almost impossible. Exceptions are extremely rare.

Therefore, the dreams of many people in love that after the wedding they will be able to “remake”, that is, re-educate their loved ones, change their views and habits, in most cases remain dreams.

In the end, every person is unique and inimitable. Therefore, he has the right to both weaknesses and shortcomings (of course, up to certain limits). And you shouldn't change it. Think about it, you fell in love with a person with all his shortcomings. Perhaps you shouldn’t dwell on the negatives; you need to pay attention to the positives of your loved one.

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• how to change yourself completely

Many people from time to time have the desire to change the person who is nearby. This is especially true for women. Almost every loving woman is confident that she can change her beloved man by creating some ideal image out of him. Unfortunately, in real life this is rarely possible.

Why do you want to change a person?

However, we should not forget that if a person himself does not want to change anything, it is very difficult to change him, or rather, almost impossible. No scandals, threats or demonstrative departures will help here. Most likely, he will feel that he is not understood, not loved or appreciated, and will only become angry.

Factors influencing a person's character and lifestyle

It is sad if the reason for changes in character and lifestyle is the loss of someone close, an accident, war or disaster. In this case, a person may become broken, lose interest in life, and withdraw into himself. True, it also happens that it is difficult, tragic circumstances that change people for the better. Under the influence of hardships and hardships, character is strengthened, a person becomes stronger, thinks more seriously about life, and begins to set fundamental goals for himself.

Sometimes a person can change if he wants it and understands how important it can be for loved ones. We need to help and support him in every possible way along this path. Of course, you can try to make him want to change on his own. However, this requires time, patience and a lot of money. In addition, the desired goal matters: if you need to correct an obvious shortcoming, then this is a good and necessary thing. If the main goal is to adjust your partner to your own taste, you need to think carefully: is it worth doing? Perhaps, as a valuable personality in his own right, he is much more interesting and multifaceted.

It should also be noted that the older a person gets, the more difficult it is to change his established habits, lifestyle and existing worldview.

In the case when we are not talking about serious vices and shortcomings, it is better to learn to love and accept a person for who he is. After all, as you know, ideal people do not exist.